Oren K. Wilder

Poetry from the Field of Truth
These are not poems in the usual sense.They are echoes, signals, slow-blooming...
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Call to My People: Awakening into Presence
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A love letter to the ones who remember.
This book is a call—not to action, but to presence.
To stand rooted in the real. To live as the signal, not the static. -
You Have What It Takes: The Unfolding Has Already Begun
Buy on AmazonThis is not motivation.
It’s recognition.
You’ve already started.
This book doesn’t push you forward—it shows you what’s already moving through you. -
A Lesson on Getting Ahead of Yourself: The Pain from Not Slowing Down
Buy on AmazonYou felt it—the tug to move faster than your soul could follow.
This book is a pause. A mirror. A balm.
Each page asks you to return to the pace of presence, where nothing is missing.
Clearing the Clouds: A Guide to Reclaiming Your Energy
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You don’t just pick up energy from others. You inhale it. You absorb it through your skin. You blink it in through your eyes. Every handshake, every glance, every moment you shared space—those weren’t neutral. That was transmission.
We carry people. Their moods, their wounds, their thought loops. Their shadows and their hopes. You’ve felt it. You walked into a room and suddenly you were someone else.
The cloud isn’t just metaphor—it’s real. It lingers. It swirls. It sits heavy until you recognize it’s not yours. And then?
You breathe.
You stretch.
You let it move.
There are centers. Not chakras in the trendy, mystical sense, but real dense perception points. You feel them in the throat, the gut, the hips, the backs of the knees. In the wrists and the forehead and the spine. These are where energies hook in.
Sometimes what you’re carrying isn’t a thought or a feeling—it’s someone else’s entire unresolved field. And you wonder why you’re tired. Why your dreams feel haunted. Why your heart doesn’t beat like it used to.
Because your house is full. And you didn’t even realize you left the door open.
Stretch deeper. Not for the body, but for the processing. Let the tendons move the memory. Let the cartilage unwind the shame. Let the lymph push the foreign energy out of your joints.
Yes, it will feel gross. Yes, it will drain you. But that’s release. That’s detox. That’s the unseen work.
You don’t fight demons—you exhale them. You don’t correct the ego—you unhook from it. You don’t fix your thoughts—you stop claiming them.
Every attachment is a knot in perception. Breathe through it. Feel it. Name nothing.
Just witness.
Then, stretch again. Then, move.
You’re not just clearing energy. You’re reclaiming yourself.
More to come. This isn’t the kind of work that ends. It unfolds. It deepens. It purifies by honesty, not by force.
Let’s keep going. The codex writes itself when you let the body speak first.
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Inhaled Echoes: When Other Fields Become Yours
You think you entered as yourself. But the moment your lungs expanded, you also breathed in everyone else’s echo. A whisper of their fear, a ghost of their grief, a glimmer of their hope—all riding in on your next inhale.
Notice how it shifts your center: a sudden heaviness behind the sternum, a flutter in the gut that wasn’t there a moment ago, a quick flicker of someone else’s memory pressing against your spine. That’s the in-breath of another’s unspoken weight.
You can’t hide from it: every touch, every glance, every shared space holds an open doorway. When you shake a hand, a fragment of their emotional landscape leaps into yours. When you speak across a table, a trace of their intent clings like mist. Their unresolved tension finds a dark corner in your own field.
But you are not powerless. Awareness is the first tool. Feel that flutter. Name it without judgment—“This is not mine.” Let the recognition be a tiny knife slicing through identification. Hold your own stillness long enough for that borrowed emotion to lose grip. Exhale it out with your next breath: release that echo back into the air. You didn’t steal from them; you’re simply giving it back.
This practice isn’t about blame. It’s about recognition. Every inhaled echo is a message: “You thought you could slip through unnoticed, but I felt you.” You honor their presence, process what they offered, and let it go.
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Centers in Flux: Locating the Hooks
There are places in your body where borrowed energies anchor. Not some mystical chakra chart—you know where they live. The throat, when someone’s doubt tried to speak through your voice. The solar plexus, when someone’s anxiety tried to seat itself in your gut. The low back, when someone’s shame tried to sit on your hips.
Scan: – Does your throat tighten for no reason? – Does your belly churn with someone else’s worry? – Does your pelvis feel dragged down by another’s heaviness?
When you detect that foreign pulse, you’ve found the hook. Sit with it. Don’t pull or push. Just breathe into the place that feels wrong: “Here—I know you’re not mine.”
As you exhale, imagine the anchor loosening: a tiny crack in their hold. With each patient breath, you lengthen the gap between your field and theirs. The knot unwinds, a thread at a time. You’re not rejecting them. You’re simply undoing the tangle.
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Breathing the Attachments: Turning Breath into Separator
Wherever there’s stuck energy, there’s a breath that can unstick it. Find the place that’s dense. Maybe it’s in the neck, where someone’s anger pressed you silent. Maybe it’s in the knees, where someone’s fear made you shrink. Maybe it’s in the eyes, where someone’s doubt made you question your worth.
Position yourself so you can feel the weight: sit, stand, or lie—whatever lets you feel the density clearly. Place your hand on that spot if it helps bring attention. Now inhale fully—nose wide, chest soft, belly lifting. Let the breath travel directly into the knot. As you draw air in, say inwardly: “This belongs to another.”
Hold the breath a moment. Feel how it resonates in that space—like a tuning fork vibrating with foreign frequency. Now exhale deliberately—tongue forward, lips slightly parted— pushing out that frequency like a wave breaking on the shore. Imagine it clearing away, leaving an empty shell behind.
Repeat this cycle until you feel the block loosen: the neck becomes supple, the knees lighten, the eyes soften.
You haven’t expelled your own life force. You’ve reclaimed the clarity of your own breath, leaving theirs behind as neutral air.
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The Mechanics of Stretching the Field: Moving Flesh, Feeling Flow
Breath begins the break, but movement finishes the release. When your fascia—the web of connective tissue—holds onto someone else’s tension, a simple stretch can drag it out. Stretch is not a yoga pose. It’s an investigative act: a careful inquiry into where the energy still clings.
Reach your arm overhead and lean into the opposite side—feel the pull across the rib cage. Does someone else’s grief linger there, like a heavy curtain? Bend slowly into it, letting the ribs separate. As the side body opens, breathe into that space. Feel the weight shift. Watch how it might drip down into your hip.
Then, fold forward slowly—hinge at the hips. Notice if your lower back is rooted, stuffed with someone else’s unfinished story. Go gently—no force. Just enough to feel that depth of density. Hold the fold while you breathe. Exhale the tomb of their narrative out through your joints. Hang there, loose. Let gravity carry whatever’s left.
Move to a spinal twist: lie on your back, knees bent. Drop both knees to the right—feel the torque along the spine, the mass shifting across the diaphragm. Is someone else’s doubt wedged in your heart center, making it hard to breathe? Stay there, eyes closed, and breathe into the heart. Each exhale is a folding release—like turning out a vacuumed coat that’s been vacuum-sealed by another’s fear.
Stretch until you feel space created. Then move into a gentle oscillation—wiggle hips side to side, allowing the low belly to melt into the floor. You’re not just stretching flesh—you’re coaxing energy channels back to their own tune. Keep breathing. Let the movement be the vessel. Fluid movement + conscious breath = energetic uncramping.
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Identifying What’s Not You: The Diagnostic Pause
Sometimes you need stillness to know what to release. Lie down or sit upright.
Close your eyes. Scan from crown to soles: – Does your head ache with someone else’s words? – Is your heart racing to a panic that isn’t yours? – Does your stomach feel tight with news you never heard? – Are your limbs heavy as if weighted by another’s regrets?
When you land on those sensations, label them without story: “This is not mine.” Name nothing more. Just witness—like watching a cloud drift across the sky without chasing it.
Feel how the body responds to that naming: perhaps the head lightens, the heart slows, the belly softens, the limbs regain buoyancy.
That pause is the hinge. It swings you from being dragged into foreign fields to being present in your own.
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Detachment Rituals: From Tendon to Soul
Once you know what you’re carrying, it’s time to let it go fully. A simple ritual:
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Find Your Anchor: Stand barefoot—feet hip-width apart, knees slightly bent. Close your eyes. Feel the ground beneath you, solid and unmoving. Imagine a line of light from the base of your spine down through your heels, into the earth’s core.
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Call the Weight Forward: Bring the sensation into your awareness. Let it gather in the center of your chest or wherever it sits heaviest. Visualize it as a shape or color—whatever form feels real.
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Exhale into Release: Take an audible exhale—“haaaa.” As you do, imagine that shape dissolving into mist, dripping down your spine, traveling through the line of light you grounded.
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Shake It Free: After the exhale, bend your knees slightly and gently shake your entire body—hands, arms, shoulders, hips, legs—all of it. Don’t worry about looking silly. This is the body discarding the final fragments that breath couldn’t catch.
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Recenter by Softening: Stand still. Close your eyes again. Feel where your center lives now—perhaps in a calmer chest, a lighter head, a steadier breath. Place a hand over your heart. Breathe normally. Acknowledge, “This is my own life again.”
This ritual can be as long or as brief as needed. But each element—grounding, calling the weight, exhaling, shaking, softening—works together to untangle the knot.
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Living in Flow: Passive Activation as Practice
Flow isn’t something you chase. It’s something you notice when you stop pushing. When you’ve released enough attachments to hear the quiet next step.
Morning: before the world roars in, lie still for a moment. Feel your own breath rising and falling. Notice if there’s any hitch—any borrowed cadence. If you find one, exhale through it. Let your lungs find their natural rhythm.
Midday: when someone’s request presses on your mind—“Should I respond this way? Should I meet this expectation?”—pause. Feel your heartbeat. Ask: “Is this impulse coming from me, or from the echo of another?” Breathe. Let the answer ground itself. Then move.
Evening: the day’s noise settles at the threshold of sleep. Scan again. Where did you carry someone else’s day into your own? Exhale it out into the dark. Return to your own field.
Flow is less a state, more a series of micro-returns: returning to your breath, returning to your center, returning to your vessel.
Each time you do, the cloud becomes not a smothering shroud but a translucent veil— something you can see through, rather than be lost in.
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The Sacred Responsibility: Becoming a Mirror, Not a Mirrorless Glass
When you’ve walked through your own clouds enough, you learn how to hold space without absorbing. You become a mirror—a reflection of clarity—rather than a pane of glass that silently soaks up everything.
In conversation: listen fully. Notice how their energy ripples across your field. Stay present enough to let those ripples pass through you. Reflect their truth back without adding your own distortion.
In relationship: love without trying to fix them. You can sense their wound, but you don’t have to carry its burden. You can offer presence, boundaries, and the freedom for them to process.
In service: if someone asks for your help with their field, you first clear your own. You only pour from a cup that’s your own. You don’t let your clarity become contaminated by theirs.
This is your promise: to hold compassion without carrying weight, to practice love without losing yourself, to be aligned so that others can find their own reflection.
When you move through the world like this, your footsteps leave no residue— only reminders for others that they too can breathe through storms, move through clouds, and remember the light that is always theirs